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I cannot fail first to pay tribute to the honest frankness
and dispassionate judgement of E. Burke Rochford and Bhararata Srestha
das in their articles. 'Dispassionate' does not, of course, denote
an attitude of cool standing back and self-distancing from the realities
of such a painful subject. Rather it signals the endeavour of a
religious believer or sympathiser to be committed to practical and
effective action for change, instead of being paralysed by panic
and despair, or provoked into ill-considered action by rage or defensiveness.
I recognise points of convergence with the experience
of the Roman Catholic community in Britain in the sociological analysis
of the situation by E. Burke Rochford, but I recognise differences
also. There can be a variety of causal factors in child abuse. Obviously,
I am speaking from a social context limited by my experience in
Britain, which is significantly different from North America, to
say nothing of India.
The association of religion with child abuse, and of
religious ideas with emotional abuse, is possibly more plausible
in the context of the United States. If a fundamentalist approach
to scripture and a pessimistic interpretation of Original Sin is
still encouraged with strong religious practice, one can see the
links. British Catholics are more surrounded and influenced by secular
agnosticism, and secular ideas of child rearing. (Only the wealthy
minority was, until recently, able to pay elite private schools
to beat their children for misbehaviour; these private schools were,
with eccentric anachronism, called 'public schools'.)
Totally foreign to the Catholic tradition is the idea
that marriage and family might be a symbol of spiritual failure,
and that children's education could become of secondary importance
to the community's main mission. On the contrary, building schools
and educating children received greater priority in resources allocation
in comparison to even church building. Parents were not excluded
from contact with the network of day schools. Religious orders engaged
with care of children and education as their primary raison d'être.
Yet in these far from marginalised institutions (schools and families)
abuse did occur.
Nevertheless, there was a restricted group of children,
who by definition were deprived of parents or family lifethose 'in
care', either as orphans, or by secular court order, or those handed
over by unmarried girls unintentionally pregnant. Worse still for
those children who were 'exported' to commonwealth countries with
inter-governmental approval to enjoy a supposedly 'better and healthier
life' than was available to them in tired, cold, hungry, post-war
Britain. These probably suffered the worst abuse, emotional, physical
and sexual. The abusers were priests, religious sisters and lay
staff. The situations were those of isolation from society and living
in 'total' institutions. The Utting Report[1]
has shown that even today, living away from home is an indicator
of risk be it in religious or secular society. Wherever there are
children living away from home, in a situation of particular dependency
and subordination to authority, there is a magnet for child abusers.
Without efficient management and standards that can be, and are
checked, abuse is likely.
Opportunity is of course widely available to trusted
religious guidesthe family circle is open to them, they are above
criticism, welcome and their attention and kindness to children
is particularly valued. (Only doctors could be more greatly trusted,
but most children are not perpetually ill.) The non-religious abuser
has to find his way into the family, perhaps via cohabitation with
a vulnerable woman to obtain access to children. In contrast the
power of the religious guide lies in his or her ability to persuade
children that somehow 'this is all right', and to deflect suspicion
by status.
For these reasons the response to child abuse cannot
be limited to ensuring that new cases are properly handled-though
this is important as an immediate response by an institution. Here,
the context of secular law and public authority is exceptionally
important. If the welfare of children is paramount, and if there
are adequate public services, then co-operation and liaison with
the State authorities are the guiding principles, not leaping into
inexpert investigation by interested parties. It is natural, as
Bharata Srestha das outlined, that ISKCON Resolutions 90119 should
precede 98305, but it would be strongly advisable that attention
to the needs of victims and to prevention should become the focus.
It is likely that there will always be some cases of abuse (this
is a sad fact of any organisation, be it religious or secular),
and there will be abuse that is never discovered. The most effective
action that an organisation can take is to reduce risks and opportunities
by preventive policies. Perhaps most important is the adoption of
'professional' or 'acceptable' standards of conduct for all those
that work with children whether paid or volunteers. This limits
opportunities of access to children. It provides a discernible matter
for detecting and prosecuting perpetrators, and finally defends
people from the risk of false accusations. Setting standards requires
resources at a local level or a unit of management or authority
that will enable teams to work. These teams will introduce, advise
on, modify and monitor these standards by their observation. They
should be answerable to the local religious authority (the bishop
for Catholics) and enjoy unequivocal support from that quarter.
They should be trusted with full information and should ensure that
such information is comprehensive and without breaks in continuity.
The last problem to be addressed (and this does not
necessarily come after the other tasks have been completed) is what
to do with offenders. A number of questions spring to mind: is the
religious community right to conclude that offenders must, without
exception, be expelled? Does that make the world safer for children?
One is aware of the danger of bogus repentance by an offender, and
the danger of an abuser's utilisation of religious status to obtain
access. Our experience is that incarceration of an offender provides
both a safe period and a breathing space for the institution to
assess how to respond. But what next? Do you throw a time bomb out
into society, or do you try to strike a bargain: supervised life
within the religious community, subject to strict conditions, regular
risk assessment and the knowledge of those who need to know? Like
many other problems surrounding child abuse, there probably is not
one right answer-we have to cope with 'doing the best we can'.
Footnotes
[1] Utting, Sir
William, 'People Like Us: The Report of the Review of the Safeguards
for Children Living Away From Home', British Government, Department
of Health, 1997.
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