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Conflict between spiritual and material visions is nothing new:
Brahma and the Four Kumaras, Daksa and Narada Muni, Buddha, Jesus.
Such difficulties arise in all cultures. Still, when visiting parents
and relatives or even old friends, devotees should bear certain
things in mind. Here is a list of important reminders and tips.
- We must always respect our parents.
- Devotees can speak with them about other things too (not exclusively
about Krishna).
- The relationship shouldn’t be disturbed by our involvement
in Krishna consiousness. It should continue just as before or
improve.
- When Srila Prabhupada was staying at the Aggrawals, for example,
and people would smoke, he would tell them not to worry about
him; he didn’t mind. He didn’t create any trouble for
anyone. He cooked for them. He shared in their joy. He could speak
about mundane things like the vacuum cleaner. He was always very
friendly and pleasant to be with.
- Try to understand how they may view our acceptance of a devotional
life.
- Be careful of the tendency to zealously share your enthusiasm
for Krishna Consciousness with your family or friends. It may
not always be appropiate.
- Ease your family and friends into it gradually. Don’t load
everything onto them at once.
- Keep in regular contact with your family.
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